I've been contemplating a lot of things lately and I think I have finally found myself. Let me explain. When I was younger I sacrificed myself, my friends, even my personality to live up to what I thought people wanted me to be. Especially when I became romantically involved, I was always looked at as "So So's Girlfriend" and I tried to mold myself into what I thought was expected of me and that title. My "friends" didn't know who I really was because I was never Barbara, I was always the girlfriend. You know its funny. These people, the people I gave up myself for were not even friends... I thought they were at the time because I was so na